too much abuse

I sense abuse.

"That's just good manners and sportsmanship something completely alien to you pompous self absorbed blowhards. God forbid anyone should hold you up to a standard of conduct! "

The abused becomes the abuser.
The cycle continues.

@vp_nbi If you have had a dubious game, the most correct thing to do is to report to one of the moderators or administrators of the site. They have powerful engines that evaluate all the moves. lichess.org/report